HEALING IS THE CHILDREN'S BREAD

Healing is His Children's Bread. I know this. I suffered longer than the woman with the issue of blood. My blood count lingered around 6.9 on many occasions. The year I received a letter telling me I was no longer anemic I was speechless - God is GOOD. Now my blood count stays above average and better than most men - according to the doctor!!

They are just practicing physicians but they need us to remind them of who is really in control. So when we become ill and have to visit them and they tell us they don't see a way past our issues. Just smile and tell them it's not up to them and God is in control. Sooner or later when they have given up on their limited knowledge they'll see God's hand at work when we are healed. But remember, if we don't go see them how else will they know - A Candle hidden under the bed does no one any good.

So go, let them spin their wheels, keep the faith and let God get the glory!! It's what we do that blesses the world, not what we say. Jesus' actions is what has allowed us salvation. He constantly mingled with those of little or no faith and showed them how to stand on the word of God. Love conquers all - I'm learning more and more everyday.

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This blog is a note from my cousin in Michigan. Since my intention was to write a blog of the same title (unbeknowst to her), I thought to just publish hers.

Just to add to it: God many times uses physicians to bring healing. He allows many of them to be used in His healing process, so we don't have to be afraid of them. We must continue to know Who is in control, keeping our faith in God and pray for the medical professionals. Those who are not His will come away perplexed as He uses them to help in the process and/or as He does it without them!

All doctors are not bad, though many of us have had some not so good experiences. We, however must use godly wisdom, trusting God with our lives, not man. Second opinions are good. Working with the doctors, (who are the experts in their field), is good. Unless, you suspect otherwise, then seek the Lord for direction.

How we behave through the process, if godly, brings more glory to God and opens the eyes of those who don't know Him, more than the miracle of healing. While things are tough and we behave in a godly manner, exhibiting belief in God, with His love flowing through us, others will be touched.

And who knows who will come to know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior because of our lifestyle witness when under pressure? God will get the glory and we will please Him. On the other side of Eternity, we will receive a sure reward!

Note: Not going to the doctor, or not taking your children, when you should, is not faith and is not good. If we trust God with our lives and listen to Him, we will be okay, even through the tough times of sickness and infirmity.

He promises to never leave us and never to forsake us!

Believe what His Word says: HEALING IS THE CHILDREN"S BREAD!!!!

LIFT UP THE STANDARD FOR THE PEOPLE: Says the Lord

Go through,
Go through the gates!
Prepare the way for the people;
Build up,
Build up the highway!
Take out the stones,
Lift up the banner (or standard) for the peoples!
Isaiah 62:10

God has always had concern for the people. The reason that Salvation (Jesus) came to earth to dwell among men, to be crucified, buried and resurrected, was for the people! The Lord spoke this Word to me not so long ago. I have read it, meditated and listened to hear His voice speak further regarding it.

This is what He shared with me and for me to share with you. Especially, you who are leaders; those of you who have received a call from God to help others come into a walk with Him and/or to come to a closer more developed relationship with Him.

God wants the people to be able to fully and freely worship Him. It is up to those He called to minister to the people, to make the way for the people that they then can put their focus on Him. He wants the people to be led to Him, with no obstructions or distractions, with no heavy burdens or protocol that may detain them from giving Him the praise and adoration that they tend to give to ministers (human representatives) who only work for God.

The Lord is calling the people back to Himself!

I have sat on this Word, listening to hear more clearly, I have recently heard other representatives of God proclaim the same or very similar message. God is speaking more directly to those He called to minister to the people saying,

“You have the responsibility of helping My people see Me. You must show them My ways and the Way to Me. It is not about you or your ministry growth. It is about My people knowing Me and growing in My love! How will they know lest I send them a preacher? And if I send a preacher who will not lead them to Me, then what is the purpose of your call?

Is it not to sacrifice your very own life and lifestyle that others can know Me in truth? Is it not about you and your family living for Me as a witness for others to see Me? Is it not about My Word, My Son who died to set the captives free? And rose that they might live a free life in Me?

I will snatch all that you have gained and garnered if it keeps you from the purpose for which I have called you! You will never lack if you fulfill My will for your life/for why I called you! My will for you is not how much you can gain in worldly possessions or attention. My will is that you proclaim Me, not just by words, but with your life – how you live it, and that you bear Kingdom fruit!

Fruit that says that the captives have been set free. Fruit that causes outsiders to recognize their need for Me. Get out of the circuits and the cliques; stop using all the clichés; it is time for My people to take Me and My Word more seriously and to move into a new way of being! To repent, (turn from…) and learn of Me that they, too, will bear fruit that represents Me!” (5/14/08)

Personally, I trust that the Holy Spirit will speak more clearly to you, that you will know specifically what this means for you, and that you will do whatever He says.

Lastly, another Word, also, He gave to me. Not just for me, but for you reading this, too:

Take heed to yourself
And to the doctrine.
Continue in them, for in so doing this,
you will save both yourself and those who hear you.”
I Timothy 4:6

Many are called, but few are chosen. Those called indicate that they are chosen by what they do with the call God has given them. Will you do what God says to you or will you get caught up in this temporary life letting it lead you? I am still in a listening mode but as I write, am in the doing mode. With fear and trembling, doing what He has told me to do; fulfilling this assignment and moving forward to grow in representing Him in exactly the ways that He intends.

JEALOUSY… ANOTHER SIDE TO LOVE

Over the past few years, we have had the unfortunate opportunity of hearing and/or viewing sound bites of different people speaking. Sound bites are used to have others hear only a portion of what another person may be saying. These sound bites can be used to portray something negative about what the person has said, or positive. It all depends on the perspective or intention of the person presenting the sound bite.

If we do not research the sound bite, we will accept what was said as the end all commentary by that person. However, often when we do engage in further investigation of the sound bite, we learn that there was more to what the person said and that what they said did not come near to the understanding or surmise that we walked away with.

This happens, I find, with preaching the Gospel. Many of us church grown people hear and have heard statements about God, His Word or how we are supposed to be, for so long, that we accept them at face value. What I mean, is that we tend not to research what has been said or read. We develop our own conclusion about what was said or heard, which is often based upon someone else’s slant or our own life experiences and/or family and environmental background.

Many times these conclusions are false. Some walk away with thoughts about God and/or Christianity that are more negative than positive. But, dare not say this aloud to anyone else, especially a fellow Christian. What happens though is that our attitude, behavior and sometimes lifestyle show that we have a conflict with what and Who we say we believe.

You may still pray, continue as a churchgoer and doing the “Christian thing,” however carry with you bitterness and resentments toward God because you think that He has given you a hard Way to follow. Or, that what you have heard or read is just really so wrong of God that you are afraid to fully trust Him. Others walk away altogether, concluding that they will not serve a God who is so humanly negative.

This has happened with the following verse (sound bite) that we so often hear, but do we really understand?

One of the Ten Commandments:
(also found in Deut 5:1-22)
And God spoke all these words, saying:
"I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt,
out of the house of bondage.
"You shall have no other gods before Me.
Exodus 20: 1-3 NKJV
And
Exodus 20:5-6
…you shall not bow down to them nor serve them.
For I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God,
visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children
to the third and fourth generations of those who hate Me,
but showing mercy to thousands,
to those who love Me and keep My commandments. NKJV

If we do not further investigate, we can leave these verses thinking that God has the human way of jealousy whose outcome is usually negative. The bigger problem that I see with the potential conclusions regarding these verses, is this:

If we do not see God as the One and Only God and
the CREATOR of everything or
if we do not believe that the Bible is True (a literal believing)
than we can only relate to God as being like a human being

and mainly because the unspiritual cannot understand spiritual matters (matters pertaining to the True and Living God). It is our belief (our heart of faith) in God that opens our eyes, hearts, minds, wills, and ears to greater understanding and revelation of God and His Word. We receive the power of the Holy Spirit that allows us to understand.

God being jealous is because He created us and everything else, so knows what is best for us and what will and will not work for us. What is good for us bringing us benefit and what is not good for us bringing destruction (our adversary’s goal is to kill, steal, and destroy, as many people as he can in order to keep them from serving Almighty God; and he will do so by using us against ourselves if he can).

God’s jealousy is actually another side of His awesome love for us.

God gives us every opportunity to know Him which we do not often realize. Knowing Him leads us to understanding His loving concern and care for us. People, and especially some of those who are supposed to represent our God (parents, preachers, teachers, etc.), or at least lead us to seeing Him in a good way, at times, act out the negative. These negative acting out incidences cause many of us to think that God is like that, too.

(And please, don’t misunderstand me, I don’t say this to demean anyone because we all have done negative things…sinned and fallen short. What I am referring to is a consistent lifestyle of negative, even though sometimes done in ignorance of what is God’s way of doing things.)

However, if you make a decision to further investigate God and His Word, with even an ounce of faith, He will reveal Himself to you allowing you to have a personal experience with Him. You will never walk away! And you will never again settle for a “sound bite!” You will develop a hunger and thirst for Him, for His way of doing things and a love for Him that motivates your life. You will also receive a new perspective, a good and positive one; a perspective that will fill you with righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost! (Romans 14:17)

ENCOURAGEMENT FOR YOUR SOUL

This song, Can't Give Up Now sung by Mary, Mary serves as an encouragement to anyone weathering the storm of trials, temptations and other difficulties that life on this side presents. It helps us to remember that God is a God of love and He does care for us. However, it presents realism; we will have to face struggles that will test our faith and hope and cause us to have to choose whether we will allow the tough places in life to make us bitter or better.

Better is always a better choice.

The words follow. Go to the You Tube link noted below to hear the song being sung. Sing along. Think about your situation and allow the Holy Spirit to minister to you. The joy of the Lord is your strength (Nehemiah 8:10), that is, if you choose to face your problems turning them over to the Lord and seeking Him for His way of handling them (I Corinthians 10:13).

There will be mountains that I will have to climb

And there will be battles that I will have to fight

But victory or defeat, it's up to me to decide

But how can I expect to win If I never try.

I just can't give up now

I've come too far from where I started from

Nobody told me that the road would be easy

and I don't believe he brought me this far to leave me

Never said there wouldn't be trials

Never said I wouldn't fall

Never said that everything would go the way I want it to go

But when my back is against the wall
And when I feel all hope is gone,

I'll just lift my head up to the sky

And say help me to be strong

I just can't give up now

I've come too far from where I started from

Nobody told me the road would be easy

and I don't believe He brought me this far to leave me

Hook:

I know you didn't bring me, out here to leave me lonely

Even when I can't see clearly

I know that you are with me(so I can't)

I just can't give up now

I've come too far from where I started from

Nobody told me the road would be easy

and I don't believe he brought me this far to leave me

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oNk2whMMWiI

Do your best to give God praise and and put your focus on Him and His goodness in your life. No matter what your circumstance, trust Him. Keep your hope in Him, no matter what it looks like. Renew your mind as you examine whether you are in the faith (2 Corinthians 13:5). Is your faith based only upon what God does for you or rather upon Who He is? God is with you! He will never ever leave you or forsake you! Connect with Him in prayer or in praise in worship, or reading His Word. Choose God. He is the only One who has the power to help you and see you through. And beside all of this, He loves you with covenant love!

CRY ALOUD FOR THE CHILDREN

My heart, once again is being touched for the children. From age newborn to early 20’s are those of my concern. And my hope and prayer is that it is yours as well. As I listen to children and young people talking, especially those without a foundation in Christ, the reality of a very different mentality and mindset is evident.

Many of these children have very loose morals. They tend to value today and don’t recognize that their today’s make up their tomorrows. Many of them have been bruised and broken in their souls at very early ages. Some have had adult responsibility since kindergarten. Often the adults that they live with or live around seem not to understand the precious life, initial innocence, vulnerability and gullibility of children. So, are exposing them to things and experiences that they are not emotionally or mentally equipped to process in a logical, healthy manner.

So many parents have unresolved hurts and pains from their past, then pass their misperceptions and distorted reality to their children. These destructive thoughts, attitudes and behaviors become what their children believe to be the norm. Unfortunately, this includes many churchgoing Christians. Children are seeing and experiencing things in their own homes that are infecting and influencing them toward ungodly living to a detrimental degree.

Like the increase of STDs amongst teenagers. And sexual involvement at very early ages because that’s what everyone does. Teenage pregnancy amongst minorities and/or the low income is continuing to be the norm, and an acceptable norm to have a “baby daddy” to be like some of their peers. Drug use is a recreational sport for many, firstly marijuana, being smoked in some cases between parents and their kids as an okay thing to do, with the ungodly belief that “it won’t hurt you.” It doesn’t matter that it is illegal.

In some cases, teachers are not always the best example either, as we have seen many news reports of teachers engaging in sex or drugs with students or sharing with them their ungodly mentality of life and living (and I choose to believe that the percentage of teachers like this is low; my sister and some dear friends are public school teachers who are are very godly and passionate). Those teachers whose passion is for students to learn, be healthy and become a success are not always able to teach and connect with the children as they once did, in this way serving as godly role models, because public education is often focused on a single test or so much paperwork that the teachers ability to fulfill their very passion is curtailed.

What saddens my heart is when you attempt to share the reality (statistical and otherwise) and the Truth with many of the children, because they have been so inundated with the lie, with ungodly attitudes, behaviors, and mentality’s of some of the adults around them, media or peers, many of them refuse to consider that there is another way that is good for them. Bad is good and good is corny, old, out of touch, or antiquated.

Reading Lamentations Chapter 2, verses 18-21, my soul began to weep:

"Their heart cried out to the Lord, "O wall of the daughter of Zion, let tears run down like a river day and night; give yourself no relief; give your eyes no rest.

"Arise, cry out in the night, at the beginning of the watches; pour out your heart like water before the face of the Lord. Lift your hands toward Him for the life of your young children, who faint from hunger at the head of every street." (NKJ)

Though in many ways we (adults) have done wrong, God's grace and mercy are still waxing strong.

We must repent and cry out to the Lord for the protection and "Life" of our vulnerable children.

To save their lives from destruction and woe. That they may have the opportunity to also know the Lord and walk in His ways, that their hearts may be touched by God’s love leading them to repent, too. We all must be willing to repent of our sins and wrong ways, and be willing to let go of the wrong ways and sins of our parents, family members and ancestors and turn to the Lord for guidance and strength! That the Lord who is God would be glorified! (Repent means “to turn from” and includes soul remorse that leads to humility).

The children are hungry! In every city, in every state, throughout this nation, and the world. Our children are hungry! Looking for food to feed their souls. Looking for the person, for the plan, for the way that will bring them peace of mind and make them whole. They are hungering for Jesus, the Word that will give them the "Life" that their inner self knows is out there, somewhere, to be had.

They are seeking, they are searching, they are experimenting, and they are yielding, in their innocence, to the counterfeit, to the false, to the unreal. They are sad. They are given over to zeal without knowledge and zeal without true power because they have been obstructed from The Holy One. The One who knows them and will meet their need. And that only if we and they heed.

Woe, to him who would cause the children to stumble! Woe, to him who leads them astray! Woe to him who destroys their innocence and leads them along a wicked way! Is it not enough that you are destroyed that you have allowed your life to be consumed by ungodliness, drama and destruction? Are you so darkened that you can no longer hear? Are you so blinded that you no longer fear?

Have you lost the fear of the Lord?

Do you no longer tremble at His words? You men, you fathers, you brothers, you sons, do you not understand that the victory has been won? You women, you mothers, you sisters, you daughters, do you not know that God sent His Son?

Wake up, oh, people, you adults who can think and see what is happening to our children and youth! Awake from your sleep!

God the Father wants you to weep! To cry aloud to Him. To repent of your sins. To turn to Him in earnest, to make amends!

The children are waiting for you to arise. The children are waiting that they no longer die!

The time is at hand. Get into God's plan. We must save the children from the destruction of this land! Give up your lies, your comforts, your ties! Turn to the Lord! For through the children He will give you much more! Your life and theirs and that in abundance, too. He is standing. He is waiting for you to do what you must do! (see Ephesians 3:20)

©2005 Rosalind M. Stanley

BECAUSE OF GRACE

©2008 Revised

Christians Especially: What Has Happened to “For Better or For Worst, til Death do Us Part?” (Part 1)

Recently, a dear friend and I were having a conversation about marriage, particularly of those in the church. We expressed sadness and disappointment regarding a number of marriages of other Christian friends or family who have divorced or are in the process of divorce. As we talked, we both acknowledged that marriage isn’t always easy and agreed that marriages go through seasons.

Seasons meaning that there are times when married life is like fall, winter, spring, and summer. Depending on what you are accustomed to, one or two of those seasons are not fun to you and you cannot wait until they pass. The fact of the matter is that the season does pass. The older you get, the better you become at handling the season you don’t like that much.

My friend and I talked about how important it is for couples to learn how to walk through the rough seasons of marriage (which are usually growth opportunities). We both exclaimed how appreciative we are of being in relationship with the Lord. His Presence in our lives keeps our marriages stimulating, alive, loving and godly.

My friend, Joyce Linyear, has been the only wife to her husband Dwight, for over 30 years! These are two faithful people. Their commitment to God and His way of living and being and doing, to the ministry, to their marriage, and their love for each other and family and friends, is a model for many!

My spiritual dad, Dr. Zin White, and his wife, Irma, have been married almost 50 years! To this day, they are partners in business and in ministry and companions who continue to learn a little more about one another as each year passes. They have a testimony about what it means to truly stick with each other, no matter what the circumstance.

These couples have deep and continually growing relationships with Almighty God that directs the course of their marriages including their love life with each other.

Faith in God, the love of God, and being led by the Holy Spirit are the main spiritual ingredients in a Christian marriage. Love for each other, of course, is absolutely essential.

However, love, God’s love, is a choice. It takes each person to choose daily to walk in the Spirit (versus the flesh-the part of our humanity not interested in God's ways), to speak and act with love and to but your hope and trust in God (this is faith) when the relationship is challenged.

It is very important to show affection to one another, with kindness, no matter what. And at all costs, avoid the tricks of the enemy set up to get you to turn your affections toward someone else! His aim is to divide and conquer… to kill, steal and destroy!

But God has given us everything we need to live this life and to live it in a godly way! Your marriage can last like these two marriages, if you choose to make it work. Seek godly counsel to help you work through troubling issues.

God is for your marriage… to Him, it is like Christ and His church!

©2008 Rosalind Stanley
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Christians Especially: What Has Happened to “For Better or For Worst, til Death do Us Part?” (Part 2)

The last thing that Joyce and I talked about was the following verse:

“But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come:
For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal,
despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather
than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power...”
2 Timothy 3:1-5 (NKJV)

Unfortunately, there are those Christians who are unwilling to yield to God concerning their marriages so are falling prey to the spirit of the time that we are in. A number of married individuals are more in love with themselves than with God or their spouses. Some are far from being loving or holy in their attitudes and their way of life. And, unforgiveness, this is probably a key reason for the almost 50% of divorces experienced by Christians. (Forgiveness & repentance are not options of the Christian faith, these are commands of Jesus, our Lord and Savior!)

Self control is the area where many marriages fail, due to one or both engaging in adultery, i.e., cheating on their spouses. Adultery is having an emotional, romantic, or sexual relationship with another person who is not your spouse. Ususally, the relationship is carried on without the spouses knowledge (or a deception of the true relationship is known by the spouse). Adultery begins in the mind. It interrupts the sincerity and fullness of the marriage.

Eventually, the adulterer has a yoke that almost renders them helpless (no self control). As my mother says…”but God!” But God can intervene and even turn this around. If the couple decide to maintain the marriage, the adulterer has to be willing to completely sever all forms of contact and communication with the other person. Honesty, accountability, humility, a decision to turn toward your spouse, a willingness to work on building trust and waiting for the offended spouse to trust again, is the cost and the process.

Pleasure seeking, that is, “I’m just not happy,” are the words that convince many (who are consumed with "it's all about me" thinking) that ending the marriage is okay, rather than working hard to restore it. And, the very act of divorce, in most cases, denies God’s power, His ability to turn things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.

With that said, I still have high hopes for marriages, especially Christians, because Christ is in you, the Hope of Glory! The key is to remember:

you can make it through whatever difficulties your marriage

may be facing, because NOTHING is too hard for God!

And WITH GOD, (not relying on yourself alone) all things are possible!

But, it is up to you to:
1) Call upon God (as MC Hammer says, “you’ve got to pray just to make it today!":)
2) Be willing to patiently wait for the turn around,
3) Walk by faith and not by sight (continuing to show love & respect for your spouse when the feelings are not as great as you’d like them to be), and
4) Study the Bible to understand and apply it; be doers of the Word, not just hearers only.

Marriage is a test of faith in God, self and our spouse. The rewards, however, are greater love, joy and peace, and a lasting lover and friendship, when you choose to answer every questioning moment or season with faith in God following His every word!

©2008 Rosalind Stanley
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